1 thought on “What should I do if the opportunity is? Grasp it!”

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    This college to talk to me for a lesson. I can’t do it first. First of all, I am not standard for Mandarin. I am from Jining, Shandong. I do n’t distinguish between flat tongue. I have passed it twice in Putonghua. Secondly, I have been doing behind -the -scenes work in the past two years, and I have not given a speech long ago.

    The idea of ​​this idea just flashed in my mind, I replied to the academy side: “No problem, I’m ready.” The next thing is to discuss what.

    I first introduce you what to do. Popular speaking, it is a public account about new media learning. They regularly offer some courses through WeChat groups, such as “How to borrow the new year, brush the circle of friends?” Come down the offline course of the Shanghai Station “Editing Specifications and Operation Skills of Enterprise New Media”. If I go back to Shanghai in advance, I am going to participate and study hard.

    In short, what I want to express is that the academy is very good in my heart. I was invited by them to be very happy and very scared. Value, afraid of not being shameful …

    . My psychology is very contradictory. Two villains fight. Of course, I decided to challenge myself and promised them. I am currently preparing. After a day, I asked me again, “Can you help us give us a lesson in Tencent Class? This is live broadcast.”

    I agreed without hesitation. I think I always have to take the first step. I still want to publish a book in the future, go to college to give a lecture and share it. There is also a high position in the industry in the industry, which is also recognized by me. It can also let more colleagues know me so that I can learn from each other in the future.

    . If you have such a good opportunity today, I won’t seize it, and I regret that there is no place to cry in the future. And I know that with my first experience, I will not be timid in the future. Now it’s just voice lectures. I think I can give you face to face in the future.

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    After promising, I have been worried, what if no one signed up? After all, charge courses. They recruited up to 100 people. The recruitment copy was released yesterday. When I asked today, 67 people signed up. At this time, I was relieved.

    It like a similar thing to invite me to give me a class of similar things happened. I was not confident every time in my mind, and I was afraid of not doing well, but in the end I accepted the challenge. For example, when the editor of “Human Resources” magazine asked me to write a manuscript, I agreed at the time that I used a more than 3,000 words of articles on Saturday and Sunday, and the feedback received was unqualified.

    I was not discouraged, ask how to write the editor. She taught me an article most importantly to choose a topic, to be novel, attractive, and even unique perspective, and then build a structure, such as what to write each part. And this article, can you write it up? I changed at least 3 times to qualify.

    . After I wrote about 3 articles about the workplace, the editor asked me, “We are going to open a new column ‘psychological window’, I remember you learn psychological, can you write this column, can I have high requirements for professional skills. “I still agreed without hesitation. I have given the teacher for the professional class, but I bought some professional books and checked a lot of papers.

    E selection of each issue, I report to the editor by myself, so I also reviewed professional courses, such as recently written about setbacks. I have reviewed some theories about competition and cooperation. Experiment (prisoner’s dilemma, etc.). Now that we have cooperated with very tacit understanding, my article has rarely changed.

    I recently went to the editor of “Yilin” and asked if he could write a manuscript. I also bought “Yilin” magazine and prepared to study their style. I think even if the first article is rejected, as long as I persist, it will definitely break through. Because of successful experience, you will know how to break through in the face of difficulties.

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    I often ask myself a question: Can I do it? Whenever I doubt myself, I will comfort myself so. After this matter passed, the pressure was gone. When I thought about it, my heart was a lot relaxed. I sometimes push back. What would happen if I failed?

    I. During the postgraduate entrance examination, I really wanted to study the engineering psychology of Zhejiang University. I knew that I had a lot of good luck, but I registered. After teaching in my hometown for a month, I returned to the school World War II. At this time, my classmates have been admitted to graduate students for half a year in the first year, and those who have been in the exam have been working for half a year.

    The I became very passive. There are many places to recruit tests. Only fresh graduates are unlimited. I can only go back to the county town to test the teacher and then teach in rural primary schools. Psychology is an unpopular major. It is lively outside and is actually difficult to employment. I have no way, I can only do sales. The threshold for sales is very low, and academic qualifications are not required. It is not easy to do well, to speak by performance.

    It when I was not admitted, I was very sad, but I soon accepted it. Because I have analyzed two situations, what should I do if I get through? This is relatively simple, read. What should I do if I can’t get it? Test again. What should I do if I can’t get a test again? I must only work.

    . I also faced a lot of discussions. For example, my dad often said me, “I haven’t passed it twice, you see who, people who graduated from you for a year, have worked for a year, and have worked for a year. You still spend money at home for you to go to college? “

    It this way, in fact, when you choose every time you choose, you are struggling and timid. Sometimes insomnia because of stress. But the opportunity is here. Except for catching it and working for it, there is no second way to go. Because if you know that if you give up, you can’t see your hope.

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    The process of progress is actually suffering, pain, and even very contradictory. Many times I don’t know what will happen and what accidents will be encountered. In order to reduce the occurrence of accidents, I learned to deduce, that is, the whole process of practicing the whole process from the beginning to the end, deducting possible things, and then finding several available methods.

    I even if I made a lot of preparation, the unexpected minor situation continued, but fortunately, I had psychological preparation. Many times, you really have no chance to prepare. For example, this alumni party, everyone joked, all called me “Internet Red Popular”. When eating, everyone proposed to let me say a few words.

    I really don’t know what to say. Suddenly I remembered. “I hope everyone will share more and break the news when I eat today. This level is counted.

    This before the Spring Festival, I went to the company that I was about to enter in March to discuss some things. BOSS saw me, let me go up and tell you a few words. My first reaction must be rejected. I wore a sports pants that day without makeup.

    BOSS insistence, I can’t help it. I can only borrow a set of work clothes, put it on, and keep cheering yourself in my heart. You can. After the shooting, I watched the sample, and it was quite satisfactory.

    . I finally summarized it, about the opportunity, and seizing its experience.

    1. If this opportunity is very meaningful to your growth, you must catch it. Then divide the whole time according to the time node and start preparing. For example, when I was put in the college lecture, I wrote a lecture and draft in the past two days. You can find a friend for 2-3 times. When you are officially recorded, basically the problem will not be too big.

    . If the preparation cycle such as the postgraduate entrance examination is very long, you can also think about what to do if you can’t get it? You have expected results, and your mentality will be much better when preparing, which is also conducive to good results. After two years of watching many things, I found that it is not so important. I have not been admitted to the graduate student now, and I am completely relieved.

    3. For opportunities that need your temporary performance, you do n’t find a color but find it well. And you have to believe that you can choose you because you are worth it. There are also constant to challenge yourself, and self -confidence can be enhanced, as well as setbackers.

    4. You can comfort yourself. After this time, the pressure does not exist. Just these days, time will not stop anyway. If you do n’t work, tell your friends about this, and basically encourage you.

    PS: What do you do in the future, you can leave me a message, I encourage you.

    This friends teased me, “Yang Xiaomi, I can memorize it, you are great, come on, you can. But the effect is not bad.”

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